The ability to love beyond limits... that is what Motherhood is all about...
“Motherhood is a choice you make everyday, to put someone else's happiness and well-being ahead of your own, to teach the hard lessons, to do the right thing even when you're not sure what the right thing is...and to forgive yourself, over and over again, for doing everything wrong.” - Donna Ball
Being a mom has completely changed my life as one would think obviously, but the thing that amazes me the most is…
How much I love to be a mom
I have said it in a lot of my previous posts, I wasn’t the type of girl that would dream of becoming a mom some day, my biological clock wasn’t ticking, I didn’t feel incomplete, or anything like that, when my partner and I decided to have a child was more like a thing to do cause we were ready to be than a need to be parents. Then the pregnancy came and omg I felt like I hated it, I felt awful and even tho I knew I loved my child I was actually afraid to not love him as much once he was born cause I hated it to be pregnant so much. But then it happen he was born…
You can hear it and see it a lot before but it will still shock you
How much love you can feel for one person, I know I love his dad and truly feel he is the love of my life (I still don’t know why tho… LOL) but when my kid was born I was shock to my core by how much more I can love someone else. I know these are two different kinds of love, and it doesn’t mean I love any less my boyfriend but… it stills feels so much more powerful the love I have for my kid.
Try not to lose yourself in the love
This is the hardest part I think since I love my child so much I put him before my every need, he is in my every thought, I feel like all I do know is to live for him, and not that this is a bad thing but is also important for me to try and not to lose myself in that. I think if you stop caring about you and just start living for someone else even if that person is your kid/s its not healthy thing to do or a good way to live, after all he will grow up and have his own life, I have to let him be and can’t expect him to be needing me as much as he does now that he is little.
Still feeling this love has make me realize how powerful a feeling can be, how much I am capable to do and accomplish, is not like I didn’t tried before to live my life to the fullest, but now is different I don’t let any obstacle come between me and what I want for my kid, it makes me fight harder for what I want and for my kid it has giving me this strength I didn’t know I had, it has also giving me focus, and makes me see things more with more maturity. The thing that amazes me me the most about motherhood is how much I love my child.
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