Thanks @galenkp for this article. Success is what everyone wants in what they get their hands on. but unfortunately some don't succeed because they try to cut corners, avoiding the hard right and choosing the easy wrong path, but for some they are just not properly guided or informed. I remember going through a users blog here on hive and asked "please how can I thrive on this space". his response was very shallow. Almost discouraged, but I continued.... Your post exposes more why I havent gotten it right these while... thanks once again @galenkp
Cutting corners may seem like a good idea however it will rarely result in something lasting and usually ended badly. Applying effort, passion and some personality is a better way forward here, and if outbound engagement (reading and commenting on other people's posts) is done well relationships will form over time.
I don't like to hear that someone gave you a short and valueless reply to your questions on how to improve. I don't know the situation so won't comment much, but urge you to continue asking questions, in the right way of course, and the answers will come.
Thanks @galenkp I will do as you said.