They can ebb and flow back and forth; they are never perfect and thinking of them that way, or trying to make them that way is a fools errand. People are flawed and fallible, it's a human condition.
I'm going through a difficult personal situation right now and this is exactly what I needed to read. Thank you.
I'm sorry to hear that, and aim hope you plot a course into calmer waters soon. From what I have read from you I think you have the ability.
I'm pleased to hear something in this post made sense at the moment you needed it to.