I Learned How To Fight Back When I Fall Down.

in Self Improvement2 years ago

When we fall, we learn to get up. And after getting up, we will learn how to fight..


We will not always say we are weak. Not all the time, we are strong. Me, when I stumble I rest for a while. After a break, I'm back to the challenge of life. I don't want when I stumble, I'm just there. I also don't want that when I fall I won't try to get up again. We are here for the challenge of life, we are here for the reality that you can't just be weak. That you can't just be there, that you can't not know how to keep up with the challenges of life that we face. That's why, they have a saying, that if you are weak, you lose and that is true.

It is true that we are not always weak, but what can our mindset do? In the end who loses? In the end who is poor? Nobody but us, right? In the end, if we stay in that mindset, we can't do anything but curl up in the corner and think about where we went wrong, and where we didn't do something right, which is also wrong. We have no sin, we know that. But it's so wrong to think, "Oh no, we're not right here.", hey look. There is no wrong, and there is no right okay? Don't think that there will be no destination, especially if you dedicated your tears, sweat, and hard work for that matter. Even me, I have this mindset where sometimes I don't know what to do. I'm too down to go on, and to do everything. I was thinking, what if I just give it up? I'm full of what ifs, I'm full of doubts. So in the end, I'm the one struggling with my own decision that I have to choose because of my mindset.

I'm the type of person that sometimes it's better for me to give up right away, or l backed out. Not because I'm weak, but yes. I have a weakness for things that I cannot explain further. What I can do is to promise myself that I am still fighting everything and I am still breathing everyday. It was a good feeling when we learned how to fight back despite everything. Especially when there are many problems, but we still choose to continue and to go on. It's hard, especially when we don't know what to do anymore. You're just stuck in the part that you will ask yourself non-stop just because of the path that you take. Friend, there is nothing wrong with the path you chose, okay?

Even me, I can't deny the fact that I'm having trouble choosing what I want, sometimes I don't feel that I am not motivated, sometimes motivated and sometimes 50/50.

But despite everything, I'm still willing to do the things that I want to do. I want to reach my limit and I want to make sure that no matter how hard the life is, my motvation will stay, and it will be forever stayed.

Always remember, that no matter how unmotivated that you feel right now,keep going on the things and dreams that you want to be.

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There are times that I feel sluggish because I do not know where to start. But whatever you are aspiring for, do not give up! Fighting! 😊

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I always struggle on choosing what I want, too. I take time to weigh both sides and think of all the possibilities that will com with that. Then, that's where I decide what's best to do. I think you're doing great now, Gy. Padayon!

salamat ate! yes i will keep my path correctly and padayon lang sa tanan!

empowering reading this, truly there is no other way but to get up when falling since not moving at all will get as nowhere. thank you for sharing your article about this! 😊
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No one shall tell you you made the wrong decision after backing up, sometimes it's the best choice, especially when things become more chaotic physically and emotionally.

true! but the most important is after losing track, we'll be back and keeping our track again!

But despite everything, I'm still willing to do the things that I want to do. I want to reach my limit and I want to make sure that no matter how hard the life is, my motvation will stay, and it will be forever stayed.

That's the spirit! Life will be hard and each struggle that we will do once we surpass it another hurdle will be added again there's no point in giving up.

We can always limit ourselves about the things that we can and cannot do but if we do that we will be stucked on the same situation that we are in.

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corrct manong! that's why I keep telling myself that I need to surpass my limit

I loved this piece for so many reasons. Recently went through a bit of a funk recently myself, so this is just a great and inspiring read. Like you said, sometimes we all stumble and fall, but life won't improve and we won't move forward if we continue to lie down exactly where you fell. Thanks for this!

thank you so much! yes you're welcome. just continue your step moving forward. don't mind being fallen down, jst keep your phase!

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None of us indeed didn't face challenges and the only choice for us is to fight back. This life is all about survival and we must learn how to get up after from falling.

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This reminds me of the poem:

ومن يتهيّب صعود الجبال *** يعش أبد الدهر بين الحفر

It means: "He who fears climbing mountains *** will live for the etnernity between pits"

As for me, I think it's okay to be weak, it's okay to lose mentally or physically, but if you can be a bit stronger, why not do so? Life doesn't have to be a competition. !LUV


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There's nothing wrong to be weak sometimes, what u said on the last is true, life is not all about competition, and the only competition that the life had is the problems. For us to be able become more stronger. Thank you so much for reading my article!

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