GRIEVING after the DEATH of a LOVED ONE: what will help and hurt you

in Self Improvement3 years ago

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This video discusses what can help during the grief process after a major loss.

Intro 0:00
Grief Causes Health Problems 0:18
Creative Arts Therapies: 1:02
Post-Traumatic Growth 1:37
Factors That Affect Guilt 2:33
Grief Counseling 4:11
Outro 5:42

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I recently lost a best-friend just before Christmas. It is still difficult for me to accept it and I am trying my best to accept it. One of the ways that I am currently doing is signing up to a gym to let off some steam and cope.

I'm sorry that's happening. It is a difficult situation to experience. Acceptance is a process and a non-linear one, but it's awesome that you're going to the gym. Working out, moving your body, it'll help you not internalize the trauma. So many other benefits like keeping depression and anxiety down. Good for you for finding a way to cope!

This was very informative and on an important topic that is crucial to understand in today's world. Thank you for this.

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