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Has there been a time you love someone dearly and you are not chanced to make an advancement?
Probably you went to a restaurant, your favourite restaurant hoping to take a good meal with subsidized price. You met this young lady with a smile that melted your heart, you lost yourself at the moment and she kept on Smilling until you forgot to say a word.
You sat down waiting to be served so you can at least say a word,but the meal was served by another weird looking waitress.
You wonder where she went to, you are curious and even after your meal you still couldn't find her.
Maybe fate doesn't want you both together, but who cares about fate?
If you want it, you go for it
After going for what you want maybe later, we can consider what fate have to say.
This is me, dumbfounded in my imaginations. I do want her, I crave for a touch, a conversation, an intimate feeling but I'm not even chanced to get closer.
How do I apply love languages when I can't manage to get her attention?
I decided and sneezed out my fear, I thought to eat at that restaurant daily but each time, I can't simply find a space to communicate my feeling.
I can only fantasize at how beautiful a creature can be from afar, a glimpse of her long shinning her, her clean fingernails, all of these pictures couldn't stop coming through.
I thought to study the love languages maybe I can find a clue
Here are a list of every love languages I know about
1. Gifts : I could give a gift but I would always prefer a chat before a gift. This could work but doesn't seem sensible to me.
I won't bring a gift to her workplace having her get sanctioned by her boss. That'll be a bad way to get acquainted.
2. Acts of Service: I don't do service without intimacy. I choose not to think of this.
3. Quality Time : I could not get a minute attention, how do I make this work?
4. Words of Affirmation :
Without time, I believe words of affirmations can't go so far.
5. Physical Touch: I crave for this but how do I lay a hold on her God perfect edited skin without getting to know each other.
6.Communication.
This is the only key I need to get other factors into the game.
Don't be too shocked ! Love is a game, it becomes real when the communication is true to both parties
HOW THEN DID I MAKE MY FIRST ADVANCEMENT?
I did my research,asked a few questions about when she closes from work, her free days, her likes and dislikes. I got every possible details I could get and prepared for my move the next day.
It was a Saturday. I work from home so I have the capacity to spend as much time as I want.
I went to the restaurant 9:50am, she resumes to duty, 10pm taking up the shift and closes 7pm.
I went straight to get my order. I didn't say a word, she took my order and I gave her a piece of paper.
She smiled and opened it, in it I said " Thank you for the beautiful smile, I would like to appreciate it with a meal. Permit me to buy you a meal after your shift."
She smiled, I smiled too and went back to my seat. Another weird looking waitress served me, but before she left, she dropped a paper on the side of my meal . It was the paper I gave to her.
I wasn't so happy I had thought she wrote back to me. Well, before the weird looking waitress left my presence she said " Turn Over".
I turned over and in it was her call line and a message Meet me at 7
Every other thing is a story I don't intend to tell you now.
I communicated my love with every possible means I could.
She has a friendly nature and I thought to explore that.
Anyways I don't give up on what I want, most especially if what I want is a beautiful creature.
What do you think? Can you give up what you love because fate isn't competent enough to give you a chance?
I'll love to hear your comment🥺🥺