I have to agree with you on some of your points here. Also I think the VFX from the amazing Spider-Man series looks more superior compared to this one.
Ironman and Dr Strange's involvement all the time is disliked my lots of Spiderman fans but after this movie we will probably see a major change in his character development.
I haven't watched Dr strange 2 yet but it's releasing here in theaters today. I hope I can see it soon like you.
I also expect an important change from here on, thanks for reading