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In a context driven by relentless self-optimization, we constantly assess our value against others. The relentless internal scrutiny encourages an unhealthy obsession with self-judgment, and this “overheated ego” creates neuroses stemming from our unrealistic self-expectations. Such overwhelming pressure prompts our self-worth to hinge on our achievements rather than a balanced view of our humanity.
This shift leads to superficial connections, where individuals often interact more out of self-interest than genuine relational grounding. Friendships become transactional, driven less by mutual support and more by what they can add to our resumes or social standings.