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Transitioning into his second rule, James emphasizes the value of being polarizing in your opinions. He shares a vivid analogy about attending a family barbecue, encouraging individuals to stand firm in their beliefs rather than merely going along with popular opinions. By expressing contrarian views, James suggests that deeper connections can be forged with like-minded individuals, even if it causes some division.
He reflects on his own experiences on social media, where polarizing statements can lead to significant engagement. However, he cautions against seeking controversy for its own sake and emphasizes the importance of authenticity. He's a firm believer that it's better to build a community that resonates with your true self rather than one that adheres to generic expectations.