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As the narrative develops, it highlights the emergence of more controversial and fundamentalist perspectives within self-help circles. Groups like Real Social Dynamics emphasized a darker vision of confidence, one that revolved around objectifying women and treating relationships as a game to be won. The advice shifted into a territory of manipulation, urging young men to conquer and seduce women through tactics that often undermine genuine connection.
In contrast, the original and healthier messages of self-help—that of self-love and authenticity—became muffled under a wave of commercialized, gamified dating advice. This shift in tone catered specifically to lonely men seeking validation, resulting in a business model ripe for exploitation and profit.