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The tensions in their spending habits seep into their relationship. Tessa feels like she’s given up on trying to manage their finances, while Wesley admits to having no self-control when it comes to spending. Their conversations about money often spiral into arguments, with Tessa expressing the emotional burden every time they broach the subject. It becomes apparent that past traumas from Wesley's childhood, where financial stress led to family conflict, play a role in his current behavior.
As the conversation unfolds, it’s evident that Wesley's acknowledgment of his spending problem isn't enough to spur change. He openly states, “I don’t care,” indicating a resignation to the cycle instead of taking proactive steps to rectify their financial situation.