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He admits that sometimes, despite the best intentions, things don't go as planned. Jax candidly recounted personal experiences where he felt that reaching orgasm was unlikely—whether due to fatigue, drinking too much, or simply not being in the right headspace. Rather than enduring an awkward moment, he developed a method to diffuse the situation.
Deflecting the Pressure
Jax shared a strategy he employed when he recognized sex wasn’t going to lead to satisfaction: he would stop early and express a desire to delay the encounter. “You know what, I really really like you. I don't think we should do this right now,” he would say. This approach not only relieved him of any performance pressure but also reassured his partner.