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A significant point raised is the unrealistic expectation of finding a "perfect" individual—someone who will never cause us emotional pain. It is emphasized that every human being, regardless of their intentions, has the capacity to hurt others. This truth is universal; there exists no perfect person who can shield us from emotional distress. With this understanding, the approach to hurt changes—it becomes less about seeking perfection and more about managing our responses to the imperfect reality of human relationships.
In reflecting on this, it becomes clear that our expectations can lead us into a cycle of disappointment and hurt, as we search for an ideal that simply does not exist.