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Research paints a clear picture. When scientists surveyed authors of multi-author papers about their contribution percentages, the total averaged out to a staggering 140%. Similarly, when couples estimate their share of housework, the combined total frequently exceeds 100%. This misperception isn’t limited to positive actions; it extends to conflicts and problems too. Couples also believe they start more arguments than their partners. This leads us to ponder: why is this the case?
The answer lies in our cognitive experience. We vividly remember our own efforts and contributions but have a much less clear recollection of others’ actions. This inherent bias not only skews our self-perception but also influences how we attribute our success—or lack thereof.