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To mitigate the risks associated with premature commitment, potential partners must be subjected to various life scenarios over an extended period—possibly two to three years. This timeframe permits observation of their behavior under stress, their interactions with others, and their ability to navigate challenges. Only then can a partner’s true character emerge, revealing qualities one may wish to prioritize for a lifelong union.
The idea here is that the longer the commitment is held in abeyance, the more its desirability grows. Investing in the relationship before broadening the commitment allows for a well-informed decision about whether this person aligns harmoniously with your life goals.