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Although some may attempt communication strategies to uncover underlying feelings, the reality is that if those words are said, serious cracks in the relationship may already exist. A partner may begin to construct narratives that place blame on the other for their unhappiness, diminishing the sense of shared responsibility in the relationship.
Indicator 2 & 3: Criticism and Blame
Following the declaration of unhappiness, a partner often feels compelled to voice criticisms and assign blame. At this stage, hobbies or personal interests may come under scrutiny. Feeling that one’s free time is prioritized incorrectly can lead to resentment, further distancing the couple.