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As one partner externalizes their unhappiness, a cycle of criticism and blame can ensue, often exacerbating any existing problems. The blaming can turn into accusations that make it difficult for productive communication to occur, ultimately animating the discontent in the marriage.
Indicator 4: Need for a Conversation
When one partner signals a need to discuss the relationship, it often translates to a desire to list grievances or highlight perceived failings. Terms like “we need to talk” may disguise the request for a deep evaluation of the marriage's issues, placing the burden of resolution primarily on one individual.