Part 3/7:
The Art of Approaching
When it comes to making the first move, Heidi encourages respectful communication. A simple introduction paired with a genuine compliment can go a long way. However, she stresses that men should read the room; if a woman shows disinterest, it’s important to gracefully back off. This advisory extends to group dynamics as well—an older foreigner trying to engage a younger woman in a group setting may come off as intimidating or intrusive.
The Do’s and Don’ts of Interaction
Heidi highlights several key behaviors that foreign men should avoid to ensure respectful interactions. Catcalling, acting overly eager, or behaving inappropriately can make a woman uncomfortable. Instead, she urges men to be polite, genuine, and perhaps even light-hearted in their approach.