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Projection plays a pivotal role in these relationships. It occurs when we attribute our own insecurities or hidden desires onto others. You might obsess over someone not because of their inherent qualities, but due to what they evoke within you. The longing for confidence, approval, or a sense of freedom may manifest as infatuation with someone who displays those traits.
Conversely, when someone causes pain or frustration, your fixation might stem from the unresolved emotional conflicts they trigger. It’s essential to realize that these obsessions may not be about the individual themselves; they are about what they uncover within you— whether it is a wound that needs healing or a part of yourself that you need to reclaim.
Understanding Archetypes and Emotional Attachments