Hello everyone, my name is Roman, and I'm currently enjoying the serene environment of Ubud, Bali, from my beautiful villa balcony. Although the picturesque landscape is enticing, today I’m compelled to share a more pressing subject: my departure from Germany and why I have no plans to return.
I also want to delve into the broader context of why many individuals are leaving Western countries, particularly Germany. It's a complex situation, and sadly, many people aren't even aware of what they’re missing out on.
Let’s begin by acknowledging a fundamental truth: the political and cultural tensions within the West are at unprecedented levels. This division permeates various aspects of life, including gender relations, cultural interactions, and political affiliations. As the environment becomes increasingly strained, people are reaching a tipping point. The growing dissatisfaction is prompting many to leave the countries they once called home.
Through conversations with countless digital nomads—90% of whom are men—I’ve gained insights that challenge the stereotypical view of this lifestyle. Many perceive being a digital nomad as living a fantasy: working on a laptop by a beach with a coconut drink in hand. However, for most men, it represents an escape from toxic environments rather than an idyllic lifestyle.
In the initial stages, many digital nomads find themselves in survival mode, grappling with uncertainty as they learn how to make a living online. Nevertheless, as they adapt, their lives significantly improve.
Furthermore, there has been a remarkable surge in the digital nomad population—35 million in 2024, doubling from roughly 17 million the previous year. Yet, despite these numbers, the global digital nomad community still represents a small fraction of the population.
The Impact of Environment
Surrounding yourself with a positive environment is paramount. This concept is not only applicable to the people you choose to be around but also to the country you reside in. My own journey began in 2000 when I immigrated from Germany to Mexico, drawn by the vibrant, family-oriented culture that stood in stark contrast to the reserved German mentality.
Conversely, many individuals remain in Germany despite their dissatisfaction. The rise of feminism and its implications on social dynamics have contributed to a bleak outlook for young men. Recent statistics reveal that 60% of men under 26 are now experiencing sexlessness, leaving them frustrated in a dating landscape increasingly dominated by online platforms.
A striking revelation I had during a recent visit to an elephant sanctuary in Thailand reminded me of the concept of learned helplessness. Elephants, bound by chains in their youth, grow to believe they cannot escape—even when they are physically capable of breaking free. Unfortunately, many men in Western societies share a similar mindset. They remain unaware of the opportunities available to them, missing out on experiences that could transform their lives.
Embracing the Shift
The landscape for self-made success has altered dramatically. The advent of online learning and remote work has opened doors for many who previously felt trapped. As the number of digital nomads continues to rise, individuals are awakening to new possibilities.
The harsh realities of living in environments filled with hostility do not have to dictate your existence. Young men, in particular, are advised to pursue online business opportunities, embrace resilience, and explore the world beyond boundaries that confine them.
Making the Jump
Finding the strength to leave behind toxic surroundings can be daunting, but with careful planning and the right mindset, it is entirely achievable. My own journey was not without its challenges; I faced setbacks like the bankruptcy of my first company, which left me with nothing. However, persistence and flexibility eventually led me to success.
Life is too short to remain stagnant in an unfulfilling environment, and I encourage everyone to take decisive action toward a better future.
If you want more guidance on how to monetize your skills, including newsletter writing, I'm here to help. The key takeaway is straightforward: draft a plan, take action, and don’t let circumstances or societal norms dictate your life.
Thank you for joining me, and if you found value in this discussion, please like, subscribe, and follow for more insights. Until next time!
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Why I Left Germany and I'm Never Going Back
Hello everyone, my name is Roman, and I'm currently enjoying the serene environment of Ubud, Bali, from my beautiful villa balcony. Although the picturesque landscape is enticing, today I’m compelled to share a more pressing subject: my departure from Germany and why I have no plans to return.
I also want to delve into the broader context of why many individuals are leaving Western countries, particularly Germany. It's a complex situation, and sadly, many people aren't even aware of what they’re missing out on.
The Escalating Divisions
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Let’s begin by acknowledging a fundamental truth: the political and cultural tensions within the West are at unprecedented levels. This division permeates various aspects of life, including gender relations, cultural interactions, and political affiliations. As the environment becomes increasingly strained, people are reaching a tipping point. The growing dissatisfaction is prompting many to leave the countries they once called home.
The Essence of Digital Nomadism
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Through conversations with countless digital nomads—90% of whom are men—I’ve gained insights that challenge the stereotypical view of this lifestyle. Many perceive being a digital nomad as living a fantasy: working on a laptop by a beach with a coconut drink in hand. However, for most men, it represents an escape from toxic environments rather than an idyllic lifestyle.
In the initial stages, many digital nomads find themselves in survival mode, grappling with uncertainty as they learn how to make a living online. Nevertheless, as they adapt, their lives significantly improve.
Part 4/8:
Furthermore, there has been a remarkable surge in the digital nomad population—35 million in 2024, doubling from roughly 17 million the previous year. Yet, despite these numbers, the global digital nomad community still represents a small fraction of the population.
The Impact of Environment
Surrounding yourself with a positive environment is paramount. This concept is not only applicable to the people you choose to be around but also to the country you reside in. My own journey began in 2000 when I immigrated from Germany to Mexico, drawn by the vibrant, family-oriented culture that stood in stark contrast to the reserved German mentality.
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Conversely, many individuals remain in Germany despite their dissatisfaction. The rise of feminism and its implications on social dynamics have contributed to a bleak outlook for young men. Recent statistics reveal that 60% of men under 26 are now experiencing sexlessness, leaving them frustrated in a dating landscape increasingly dominated by online platforms.
The Concept of Learned Helplessness
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A striking revelation I had during a recent visit to an elephant sanctuary in Thailand reminded me of the concept of learned helplessness. Elephants, bound by chains in their youth, grow to believe they cannot escape—even when they are physically capable of breaking free. Unfortunately, many men in Western societies share a similar mindset. They remain unaware of the opportunities available to them, missing out on experiences that could transform their lives.
Embracing the Shift
The landscape for self-made success has altered dramatically. The advent of online learning and remote work has opened doors for many who previously felt trapped. As the number of digital nomads continues to rise, individuals are awakening to new possibilities.
Part 7/8:
The harsh realities of living in environments filled with hostility do not have to dictate your existence. Young men, in particular, are advised to pursue online business opportunities, embrace resilience, and explore the world beyond boundaries that confine them.
Making the Jump
Finding the strength to leave behind toxic surroundings can be daunting, but with careful planning and the right mindset, it is entirely achievable. My own journey was not without its challenges; I faced setbacks like the bankruptcy of my first company, which left me with nothing. However, persistence and flexibility eventually led me to success.
Life is too short to remain stagnant in an unfulfilling environment, and I encourage everyone to take decisive action toward a better future.
Conclusion
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If you want more guidance on how to monetize your skills, including newsletter writing, I'm here to help. The key takeaway is straightforward: draft a plan, take action, and don’t let circumstances or societal norms dictate your life.
Thank you for joining me, and if you found value in this discussion, please like, subscribe, and follow for more insights. Until next time!