One thing you learn very late in life.
Look at the solution. Don’t focus on the problem.
Why we learn this late? Because you have to go old to get your own focus out of you. Me, my problem, why this happens to me, me, me and me! Once this settles down we find solution and we accept it and we move on.
but understanding problem is also necessary
Very true. Sadly, few are willing to do that.
If they focus upon the solution, they cant complain endlessly.