Here's one more human behavior that I have observed.
- You make friends easily in real life.
- Same people dominate you and then getting rid of it becomes hard.
- If you confront them you become enemies.
Learning to be assertive is the cure if you have experienced this.
I have learned to identify the people who want to control me and keep some distance from them
Yes the real problem is with friends in binary thinking, "we are an enemy" when we say no. Making us lose all the positive from all the help we brought to them freely before.