What makes you feel most pressure as an adult?
Financial responsibility. When you have 2 or more people depend on you for money daily, you'll feel the pressure.
Financial responsibility. When you have 2 or more people depend on you for money daily, you'll feel the pressure.
Financial burden of the family(not your own)......onceu turn into adult and starts earning, then the debt of the family will be imposed upon u to settle it...it has been a tradition here.
I use to feel it only happens here in Africa. Never knew its the culture there too.
1/ Yes, here also that is a kind of generational culture...but i think it's unjust....Debt on any given day is a sentece of slavery and denies freedom, self-determination....
Its sad that children inherit financial burden from family especially if you are the first or second child. It deprives them of their normal life
Exactly, and in an unjust way they are pushed into the vicious cycle of Debt.
2/ So instead family should make effort to do away for taking loans...unless warranted by medical challnges or some unprecedented events like that.
Yes you are right. The family should be more careful with money management. Kids should inherit wealth, not debt.
Exactly....and even if Debt it has to be reasonable and responsible ones....
Hey Charles, you're definitely not alone in feeling the weight of financial responsibility as an adult. It's a common challenge many of us face, especially when others depend on us for their financial well-being
Thats true. I think the family can do better to assist us caregivers to carry on the responsibility.
That's the thing. Appreciation just has a way of motivating you to keep going