Just like many others living in the world today I grew up to see myself and belong to a family who took care of and raised me to be a better person. They sent to me to school and also help me learn the work I'm doing today, that is barbering. Why growing up I read countless books that has contributed greatly to my life. This books has helped me live a better life that both my family other people outside cherish a lot. This books has also helped my family to become a happy and successful one. Hope you will like to know this books? In this article I will be discussing about them.
There is no family today on earth that is problem free. I have visited many families and I do discover that most of them are just pretending to have a happy life. Most families today are tearing apart and the rate of divorce this days is so alarming. Between 1990 to 2015 the rate of divorce double over those of age 50 and tripped among those of age from 65. Marriage needs to be so rewarding and also a permanent bond, but the reverse seems to be the case in today's world.
One may ask three questions;
- why are many families unhappy today?
- Why are there not cooperation among members of the same family?
- Why is the rate of divorce skyrocketing?
Stick with me as I gradually drive into these questions. At the end of this post we will know why all these are happening and what can help.
Why are Many families Unhappy Today?
Many families today are very unhappy due to varies reasons. Some may be due to financial stress. The head of the household or the parents not earning enough to take care of themselves and their family. This factor can really depress the head of the family and in effect this can cause great unhappiness in the family.
Another thing is that many parents today doesn't discipline their children and these children grows up to become what the society hate. Imagine a situation where you left a naive child make very strong decision that you as a parent you have helped that child make. That child due to be naive may make the wrong decision and also grow up to believe that this decision is right. This is so because the child can't differentiate right from wrong. Such child/children can even cause a family to be unhappy.
Parents need to discipline their children with love and also help them make wise decision that the will grow up to be grateful for. Although we are living at a time where wrong seems to be right we can help out children be do what right.
Why is cooperation lacking among members of the family?
So to say that most time this is cause by parents. Choosing and loving one child more than the other. When children sense you prefer one of them more than the other this can cause a big problem in the family. From I fancy parents should tech their children to love and cooperate with each other. They should do this nit only by mere spoken work but by example. Love them all equally and they are likely to grow loving themselves.
It is true that environment play a significant role in the life of every child. That is why is it very important to know the type of environment to raise your kids. Once a child learn one bad character it is likely that other kids around him will be affected just like virus spread. Discipline your children and help them see what sort of person they should be. This will help them be responsible regardless of the environment they found themselves.
Why is the rate of divorce skyrocketing?
There isn't a particular reasons for the high rate of divorce, but there are many factors that can contribute to it.
Most relationship is based on infatuation. So because is it based on infatuation actions is only being prompted based on what each one can get from the other not based on love. There is not commitment, love, teamwork, and trust.
So because beautiful falls married prompted by mere infatuation is sure to break. The rate of divorce can only reduce if people marry because of love and if children are raise to be responsible. Responsible children will always try to be a responsible Parenthood, and this will help reduce the rate of divorce.
As I said earlier, I have read many book over time that has helped me game some know if what I'm saying.
Here is one of the book. It has the title 12 Secrets to Successful families. This book help you know what to do at every given time inorder to have a successful family.
I will recommend this book to everyone who dreams of having a responsible and successful family. The book is free and you can read it at anytime. Just check it out, you will thank me later.
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We are all different, but I do know that so many families only stayed together because of the kids.
The parents have nothing in common and as soon as the last child has left the home, the parents divorce. Quite sad really.
Very sad indeed. Couples should stay together not because of children but because of the love the have for each other. I shared a link to a book that I found very interesting in the post. You can check it out.