When there's already a consciousness that the other person in the couple has a toxic behavior, I tend to think that an exit is near...
It's for sure more complicated with kids or shared assets in the middle (a house, etc.), but I would try and leave - physically.
Yes, there are kids and a house under construction. But tradition doesn't give room for a property sharing. The man owns the property.
Ok... Is a "classic" divorce procedure envisionable?
I can't tell yet, but they seem to be going in that direction.