2/🧵 The hostile encounters of pre-puberty, such as bullying, abuse, rejection, or mistreatment by parents, can make you feel inadequate. These situations can test you and prevent you from accepting that you don't deserve the admiration and support of others.
Going out with someone after being poorly treated by friends, family, coworkers, or partners can make it hard to trust others. Even worse, it can be hard to trust your gut when deciding if others are trustworthy.