I am male, not a supporter of some "patriarchy" looking to keep women down.
You have said a very beautiful thing. To be honest, I have seen in many places that men have been given many benefits. Again in some places it is seen that women have been given much more benefits than men. To be honest, even though we have said equality, we have not been able to come to equality yet.
It happens both ways - where in some places, women are given benefits over a man. In most countries, if a couple with children divorce, the women get the kids automatically, even if they are not fit for the children.