It's sickening to see such things happen but then there's nothing we can do about it. Unless you're able to put the law into your hands, like many do today. Pain is one of the greatest teacher and has made people show their true colour, because it's that time when they think you're helpless and vulnerable.
Fighting for what is right is something I've always done, even if I lose. Because it's better to fail while doing what's right than stand watch and still be defeated. But we all have our own way of doing things. Tbh, im personally not in favour of a burial of anyone below 30. It's even shocking to hear them suggest such a thing.
Stand strong man, and don't let these opportunists pressure get to you, it's hard enough losing a brother
It's sickening, like you've pointed out. What makes it even more terrible, is tasking someone who is grieving, instead of helping them to actually recover and move on. They do not want to know how the family of the dead would cope. Being an only sibling, I'm going through a lot of hurt, and I've learned so many things in this period alone. It's futile to fight these people, you can't win, but I'm absolutely going to make effort.
Most of them don't know about grief, only gains. It is when they have the latter, that they'll care about your pain.