MY INTRODUCTION POST

nilahayati (54)in LeoFinance • 3 years ago

Introduction

Introduce my name is Nilahayati, usually called Nila, at HIVE I created a username with the name @nilahayati. I am currently 27 years old and I am married. I come from the State of Indonesia - Aceh Province, Both my parents are originally from Aceh, I come from a simple family, I am the 6th child of 8 siblings, 5 boys and 3 girls, I am the last daughter and very love my brothers.

Education

I started education in elementary school or elementary school in 2000, I studied in my own area and it was so fun, I also got 2nd and 3rd place. My friends are so lively and friendly. In 2006 I entered junior high school (SMP) and in 2009 I entered high school (SMA).

There are so many unforgettable memories when I was studying for Junior High School (SMA), the joys and sorrows were passed with joy, I hope that time will be repeated in the future.
In 2012 I graduated from Junior High School (SMA). After finishing high school education, I should have gone to college to seek knowledge, but because at that time my brothers were also studying in college and the tuition fees were quite expensive, so I ended up having to be unemployed for a year.

My father works as a trader while my mother is a housewife. My parents' income is not stable, sometimes it is sufficient, sometimes it is not. I am not disappointed with my father's income because he has worked hard to provide for the family.

I am very grateful because my desire to continue my education to higher education finally materialized in 2013. I continued my studies at a university in a different district from where I live, STAIN is the campus I chose to continue my education in West Aceh Regency, I majoring in Islamic Banking. My place of residence with my college is a distance of approximately 3 hours drive, because it is quite far I choose to live in a rented house with friends.

Time passed quickly, I had passed one semester and entered the second semester, because at that time I had an accident so I had to take a year or two off. I missed again from my friends contemporaries.

In 2015 when I had recovered and started studying again I did not give up, I was still enthusiastic and had to be able to finish it in four years or 8 semesters. Alhamdulillah, at the beginning of 2018 I finished the thesis trial and was just waiting for graduation.

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Love story

I became acquainted with a man, my husband, who at that time was studying for a bachelor's degree outside the city. I was introduced by the man's friends and siblings, we met only via gadget, and had never met before.

We finally met when he returned to Aceh to conduct research at an agency in Aceh.
Our first meeting took place successfully, unexpectedly the man who is now my life partner paid attention and heart for me, and finally we paid attention to each other and we passed long distance love.

On the 14th of the 3rd month of 2019, the happy day arrived, where that day accompanied by my parents and lover's family came to the house to propose to my parents and siblings.

Time passed quickly, my lover finished his education and returned to Aceh, on October 24, 2019 we held a sacred bond, namely our marriage was simple and happy. We live far from our parents because our husbands work outside the area where our parents live. We are very happy with a simple life and our affection is maintained.

An Experience and Tragedy in 2014

On April 24, 2014, an accident occurred, in which the motorcycle that I was riding with my friend collided with a minibus the driver was driving in a sleepy state. The day before the incident, I was invited by one of my rented friends to go back to his house to pick up his motorbike which he wanted to take with him.

The next day, on the 24th of the month 04 of 2014 on a Sunday we wanted to return to the rented house, because Monday we went to college as usual, unfortunately on our way back to the rented there was a very serious accident, we were hit by a car driven by a driver who was sleepy, my friend and I were unconscious, between the two of us I was the most seriously injured, both my thighs were broken and one of my hands was also broken, I was in a coma for 4 days because my head hit the asphalt. I, who was covered in blood, had to be rushed to a public hospital, namely to Banda Aceh, which is so far from our city. Since Sunday until Thursday I just woke up. My parents and siblings were very sad to see my condition, because they were afraid of losing me and afraid that I would not be able to live a normal life again.

At that time I was just studying in the second semester and wanted to take the final semester exam and I had to take time off which was taken care of by my older brother, all my friends, relatives and relatives wished me the best. 8 days after the incident I had to undergo surgery to fix the iron in my broken bones. After a full month in the hospital, I was finally allowed to go home, and still have regular check-ups once a week, because my house is an 8 hour trip to the hospital, we chose to stay at a relative's house which is very close to the hospital. We stayed there for almost a month, until finally the doctor who treated me allowed me to have a check-up once a month, finally I, accompanied by my parents and brother, went home.

Blue Haru ensued, all relatives, neighbors and even almost one village were waiting for us to return, because in my area there are still very strong bonds of brotherhood and concern for fellow human beings. Some were crying and some were busy preparing drinking water for the brothers who came. At that time, I could only lie down and even sit down. I couldn't, I was just silent among the brothers who were busy asking how I was doing.

Time passed, I also did routine check-ups accompanied by my older siblings, after 4 months I was just lying and sitting with my sister's help. I want to go to the bathroom in my arms and take a shower with my mother's help. The sadness I experience is very, very excruciating, I never imagined this would happen, but God has willed and I believe that all of this has a lesson. I never give up, every morning I practice walking which is always accompanied by my mother and sister. Alhamdulillah, little by little, my efforts to recover, God accepted, and I was able to sit and stand on my own without having to be helped, when the control arrived the doctor had allowed me to learn to walk slowly using two sticks.

Every morning I go to therapy and try to start releasing the cane and thank God for a month and a half I can walk on my own without being held and not using a cane, mom and dad are very happy to see their child can walk normally without the slightest disability, I'm very grateful because I was given a chance to live and be able to walk as usual again. almost 8 months passed, in 2015 I continued my studies, my dream to make my parents proud was finally granted by God. But unfortunately my father couldn't see me wearing a toga because in 2018 he passed away.

At the end of 2018 I graduated, only accompanied by my mother and brothers. I am very happy even though my parents are incomplete but Father is always in my memory and always an encouragement to me.

From this story I can take the experience that if we are always serious, everything we want will definitely be achieved, don't forget to pray and be grateful in every situation.

Thus my introduction, I hope that our friendship at HIVE is not only for profit, but also for establishing kinship, sharing information and sharing intelligence.

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