We all know that children are gift from God, so don't get me wrong with the title above, where i mentioned businesses.
As you read this short article, you will get the point.
The world is failing by day because we have failed to recognise the gift God has given us.
We are bent on following the system we met on ground, a system designed by human, especially in Africa and most especially in Nigeria where I'm writing from.
I do not have problem with the primary and Secondary stage, the problem is with the tertiary stage of education where we learn absolutely nothing.
The basic knowledge for every kids is to read and write and to calculate.
But before that child start learning those, the parents has a lot of role to play.
Parents roles do not only end in providing food, medicine and shelter for their babies, it also include deciding for there babies what they would become in the future, in terms of skills.
There are a lot of contents that children can start watching from infancy to build up there knowledge on a particular or more skills.
And results has shown that if you start inculcating a skill to your child earlier, the child will be an expert before 10 years of age.
Why are we not following this pattern, i see a lot of our girls going naked on the internet because of idleness and lack of skills.
If you sign up with apps like Instagram, twitter, bigo, olamet and so many others, you will shed tears 😭 after seeing what our daughters, sisters, cousins and friends are doing just for peanuts.
I blame our parents for not training their children from infancy, but maybe its because they do not know how to go about it.
We need to change the narrative and start training our children in the way they should grow, and before 10 years of age, they will start making money for the family.
They will be safe from this violence society because they can provide for themselves.
They will know what they want in the opposite gender.
Lets start giving our children skills from day one of birth.
Play videos related to the skills you chose for them.
Read to them contents related to the skills.
Teach them with marker and board even if you think they won't understand, believe me they do.
Start buying for them things they need for the skills.
Register a business name for them and a fixed deposit account for them.
I'm @palzelly and these are my thoughts on how to start doing the opposite for your kids, more idea can come in via comments.
Thanks for your attention, one love 💕.
I am truely sad to those person that they are force to do what they don't want and even they are in right age their still stack in a prison like made by their parents..And I call my self lucky because I didn't experience this scenario..🤗Greetings
If you read thoroughly, I advised parents should choose a skill for their children when they are still babies and train them to perfect in the skill as they grow.
It's not proper to start choosing for a grown up child.