She sets boundaries to end the arguments early....she's a keeper in my book!
For the real, mr edicted- anonymous stranger-i hope everything works out the way you want it to.... Relationships are like the markets they have their ups and downs... You are just going through that bart Simpson dive you are always posting about !
I hope everything works out as painless as possible though! You seem like a pretty 'with it' and smart dude...one whose mouth gets you into trouble no doubt-but a 'sick with possible deadly illness' breakup is beyond harsh!