If it helps, I can tell you one of my wallets got hacked 2 years ago when Eth was about 1K. I remember about it every once in a while to keep paying attention to security but I do not torture myself thinking how much it represents today that Eth price is three times more.
I guess If instead of being hacked, I would have spent it in whatever, it would be the same or the feeling would be way better as I would have decided myself instead of being hacked.
It must suck to lose a significant amount in a hack - it might be even worse, as there is nothing at all to show for it, other than a bad taste.
I can assure you I felt as a complete idiot for not moving the assets to a hardware wallet as it was quite a bit of money. Bud humans tend to forget bad memories as long as they do not jeopardize your future.