debt can suck big time.
Even when the money was used for a good cause, debt still sucks real big 😢
Most especially those debts that are proving too too stubborn to deal with, it's so so annoying.
Nothing pains more than when a debt made you lose the respect, the reputation your friend and families have about you... It's really a frustrating one and with no doubt can mess with your psyche and future
I try to avoid bringing money into my relationship with friend and families by trying to not borrow more than I can forgo so that even when it proves abortive I'll be getting my money back, I'll just say goodbye to it but still the person lost his reputation I have for him