You can never compare as everyone is dealt different cards
Precisely.
We who have a shittier hand tend to value things differently as we have to work for what we have.
And in some things, people have a good hand on one side, a crappy on the other. I am lucky I live in a first world country with decent health care for near free - otherwise, I'd be dead a long time ago from illness.
Looking forward to you getting a bit of a windfall on the house - you deserve some decent financial luck after these last years and business!!