and thus had shelter and food, it was still a miserable existence
Absolutely! Survival isn't enough.
She has given up a full time job to do this, and so I now pay for everything. This of course means I'm currently living paycheck to paycheck once again.
It sucks, but hopefully the investment pays off for you both.
Many other people who are used to a lavish, spend-free lifestyle will have a steep learning curve on working out how to live on a much tighter budget.
I have seen this happen many times first hand over the years. Friends and acquaintances who wait until there is nothing left, before looking to adjust.
Also don't forget to look after yourself (mental health wise), as I know its very easy to let negative thoughts overwhelm us and feel like things are spiraling out of control
Yeah, this is what I worry about a bit at the moment. I may "survive" but at what cost to my mind? Maybe I will be stronger for it though :)
Thanks for taking the time to comment and share!