Oh this is what I tried to pinpoint on dbuzz previously. It's a good thing to admire or desire good life if you don't already enjoy one. It's quite unfortunate that some people don't want to go through any stress at the cause of trying to achieve a better life.
Most especially as you mentioned ,if they're in the entourage of those who were born with the silverspoon as we do say. Any successful man that has no questionable background has one or two ugly story to tell about their starting point. You just need to ask one of them to tell you their story and you'll know it was never easy.
Many are born with talent, but they prefer to envy Mr. B who's already killing it instead of look for ways to activate the gold mine within them.