When I was still young and looking to have children I always wanted it to be an adorable and beautiful girl, however, in my dreams covered in anxiety, the protagonist always turned out to be a boy white as milk and sweet as a candy.
I think that was the closest experience I've had of motherhood, because as you know, I didn't arrive in time in the line for the storks, and the crying baby never came.
But do I really like or don't I like children?
I think that to be honest, I was not very interested in being a young mother,and I was not willing to sacrifice some goals to bring forward the arrival of a baby, of course, I took care of that when I established priorities...perhaps I did not understand the concept of motherhood very well, because things have their time, and I felt that I was not yet prepared to have to deal with a little piece of meat that could barely be held, that cried for no apparent reason - trying all the time to understand the reason for so much crying -, that every her diaper had to be changed for half an hour, and just watching how he sucked on made both circumferences of my chest hurt...not to mention the bad nights that were waiting for us.
They hid from me... supposedly...😂
So just thinking about that, I was ready to postpone and postpone the arrival of a baby out of pure panic.
I also confess that I don't have much patience to deal with the most hyperactive ones and because of the stories that have happened to me -without wanting you to think that I am unfair-, I have also thought about the horrible things that I freed myself from...🙃
One time I met a co-worker at a medical center, she had just left the consultation accompanied by her grandson, the boy was no older than 6 years old but he was obviously crazy to get out of there, it didn't take more than a few minutes just to greet her and the boy rushed at me like a bull to knock me down with a single push, except that my reflexes were more active than his, and the poor guy crashed directly into the floor, I remember that his grandmother barely noticed him. I scolded, but the fury in his gaze because I evaded the blow scared the world out of me.... Can a child of that age feel a feeling as disastrous as the hatred he projected at me in his gaze?
A revenge between brothers...
On another occasion I was visiting a friend, very quickly because she was just picking up an order, and her 8-year-old boy was playing with a very hard rubber bracelet that bent when you put it on your arm suddenly and when you opened it it stayed in a straight line... well, what did the boy do? He became infatuated with testing the handle on my hand by snapping it so that it would close on my wrist and it certainly looked like a strong whip like a soldier's belt... there the brawl between the child and my hands began without the mother responding correctly to the situation, I don't know how many times I counted to a thousand while I managed to escape from the child and his tribulations... oh boy!
But I can't say that I have only had bad experiences, and that my feelings about children are negative because I also cherish the memory of two girls who overcame my coldness or my indifference...
They attacked me with intergalactic weapons...Ohhh!!
The first of them was with a girl who a co-worker brought to do a favor for her neighbor who had a family problem, and she spent several days going with her to my office.The girl approached me very shyly and observed everything I did and with supreme intelligence and sweetness she began to talk to me about her things, her school and what she liked most... I ended up escaping with her into the corners drawing princesses, rhinos, and a boa with an elephant on her back. interior... I would love to see her again... I fell in love with that girl.
The other girl was a little girl of 5 years old, my husband's youngest daughter, and I think it was certainly love at first sight because she seemed like a little dog following me around the house and talking like a parrot about everything that came into her mind...she never forgot a single story I told her and the many riddles I taught her...she is a beautiful young woman today and more than what we always do when we see each other in the distance is laugh and love each other well.
Who can say they don't like children?
Although I can't deny that I connect better with girls...😅
A sweet little girl was chasing a cat.
Children will only be the reflection of their parents' education, their values, their behavior, their feelings, their attitude. The child only wants to play and understand the world, because today's game will be tomorrow's truth, and yesterday's hatred will be the marked scar that will not let him and those who are willing to love him be happy.
Motherhood is a higher state of the human being.
This is my entry for weekend commitments. Do you like children or not? Explain it any way. Use your own photos.
Always very grateful for your reading.
The text is entirely my own
All photos are my property
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Adorable children and their afternoons and games in the Calero neighborhood.
In the afternoons there will always be children playing and enjoying the freedom of their narrow homes, although they will always be watched by their parents, just as it should be. Children are beautiful, and even more so when they are well educated... Right, teacher?
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I love children, I think they are the purest and wisest part of this world, but like you, they didn't come into my life. I don't feel bad about that... I have a lot of plans in my life... and you know... I think that in my previous life I had a lot of children, because it comes naturally to me to be a mother... maybe the same thing happened to you. And in this one we are for something else... it could be... abrazo!
That's right friend, in my previous life I had 10 girls, each one with a unique character but super cute and connected to each other by the wonderful love that I instilled in them...they live in each of the girls I have met in my life...plus, I know how to recognize them...😌
Children are wonderful little monsters.
In the next life we will have to change diapers a few times....hahaha.. get ready.
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I'm glad you recognised them, I had two girls in my past life and I think they were twins!!!! With curls like me and in the sunlight their hair was blonde.... I can see them. In this life we are for something else🤣
Jajajajaja...I'm glad you're enjoying this life and that you're happy.
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We are on it hahaha on the way!!!😁
🌼 I like them, I don't like them, I like them, I don't like them, I like them....
I think, in the end, I do like them. I'm almost an "old curmudgeon" now, (and that matters) but others say I empathize easily with kids. I think children show their feelings without disguises and that makes it easier to reach them.
I don't like it when parents refer to (young) children with harsh epithets. In the end they are to blame. I say this from experience.
Other people's children are easier to love. You enjoy their pleasant side and avoid them when they stop being "funny". It's not our problem, that's what parents are for.
With our own children things get more complicated. You have to "comértelos con pan" whether you like it or not.
In short, kids are adorable... as long as they are not full time 😀😀😀😀.
Wow...this is the most honest answer I've ever read...I don't know if you wrote a post about it but you are great at giving answers like this.... ...and as always I agree with you... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I had the idea of writing about the same topic, but my friend, I don't have enough time. As if that wasn't enough, now I'm renovating the kitchen at home. One more job... 🤷♂
Oh, how good, a lot of mess at first but then it is a great comfort... with incredible clarity and cleanliness... I hope it turns out very nice and spacious... That work is worth it. 🌞🌞🌞
Beautiful babies!
In front of our children we can only thank and enjoy their light!