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RE: My opinion on cigar smoking 🚬 || Weekend Engagement #171

in Weekend Experiences • last year

Many adolescents experience this social pressure, at that stage it is easier to give in because they want to fit in with other people.

Yeah that is the sad truth 😣

Therefore it is important to mix with the right company where we wouldn't be put in a situation where we need to feel obliged to doing / trying something.

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Exactly that is one of the lessons, having to be with people who respect the decision-making space of the other.

Yeah my point too, how can anyone "coerce" a friend into doing something "bad".
Everyone should have the freedom to choose what they like or dislike especially when it comes to smoking / alcohol. There shouldn't be a scenario where you're being pressured into doing these things! 😤

I think that whoever does it doesn't see it as a bad thing, it's like "including in the fun", the fun that that person considers right.
Today I was with some girls and one of them said she didn't want to drink alcohol anymore, she hasn't done it for a year. And that every time she goes to a party the insistence for her to do it is strong. She didn't even know about it, it was just a matter of the moment. Still, I felt that it was just like what she said about social pressure. It's everywhere.

I think that whoever does it doesn't see it as a bad thing, it's like "including in the fun", the fun that that person considers right.

Well yeah I guess you are right in that, didn't think about it from that perspective! But again, the warnings of a "damaged lungs" right on the cigarette packaging itself should be self explanatory on how harmful it is even though it is fun right? 🤔

Feel bad for your girls since they can't attend a party these days to have real fun without getting pressured to do stuff they don't like 😢

Seeing that image and not getting out of there, I think it's out of denial "that's not going to happen to me." I have a girl and I have not yet felt that fear, I know that when she is older I will have it very much in mind

I think it's out of denial "that's not going to happen to me."

Yup I think that is what they are probably thinking! 😖

Yeah as a parent, I can totally understand where your fear is coming from!
Would never want my kid (don't have right now) one day to be placed in that kind of situation!