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Hola hola hola! buenos diias a todos por esta comunidad, espero que estén teniendo unos días ,maravillosos. Creo que el miedo a los suegros es algo común en todas las personas, por mi parte es un miedo extremo y desde mi punto de vista razonable, la mama de mi novio es una de esas mujeres que de solo pararte al lado de ella te hace sentir mal, es increíblemente organizada, decidida, educada, y muy muy arreglada, así que si, es una de esas mujeres que son perfectas o eso parecen y te hacen sentir mal por no poder llegar a su nivel... las ria de mi novio y su abuela también son así, es como si tuvieran un club entre ellas de ser perfectas, lindo para ellas, pero no creo que se noten como afectan de manera negativa a las otras mujeres de su alrededor. Supongo que son de las mujeres de vieja escuela en donde tenían que permitirse verse y hacer todo perfecto sin que dejaran nada al azar, es bastante estresante estar cerca de ellas. Por esta razón trato de mantenerme lo mas alejada posibles de ellas y compartir en dosis pequeñas con ellas, este fin de semana mi novio y yo bajamos a la casa de la playa que tiene una de sus tías y allí se encontraban sus tías y su abuela, la verdad pase toda la semana nerviosa y preparando todo para que no pudieran criticar nada (cosa que no logre) la verdad esa no era mi idea de pasar un fin de semana relajante en la playa.
Hello Hello hello! Good morning everyone for this community, I hope you are having some wonderful days. I believe that the fear of in-laws is something common in all people, for my part it is an extreme fear and from my reasonable point of view, my boyfriend's mother is one of those women that just standing next to her makes you feel bad, she is incredibly organized, determined, educated, and very well arranged, so yes, she is one of those women who are perfect or so they seem and they make you feel bad for not being able to reach her level ... boyfriend and grandmother are like that too, it's like they have a club between them to be perfect, cute for them, but I don't think they notice how they negatively affect the other women around them. I guess they are from the old school women where they had to allow themselves to look and do everything perfect without leaving anything to chance, it is quite stressful to be around them. For this reason I try to stay as far away as possible from them and share in small doses with them, this weekend my boyfriend and I went down to the beach house that one of his aunts has and there were his aunts and his grandmother. The truth is that I spent the whole week nervous and preparing everything so that they could not criticize anything (which I did not achieve) the truth was that it was not my idea of spending a relaxing weekend on the beach.
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LLegamos a la casa y la verdad es que nos recibieron bastante bien, apenas llegamos perdí comunicación con el exterior. es decir que mi teléfono se encontraba fuera de cobertura todo nuestra estadía allá, y al principio voy a ser sincera me moleste, y me moleste muchísimo, porque creí que ni siquiera iba a poder tener el teléfono para distraerme y no compartir con mi suegra... sin embargo no tener red móvil me sirvió para pensar y para despejar mi mente de todas las noticias e información que me envían por el teléfono diariamente, la verdad es que se sintió bastante bien, desconectarse del mundo exterior y concentrarse únicamente en las cosas que te hacen sentir bien, como el sol, el olor a playa y el viento fue refrescante.
We got to the house and the truth is that they received us quite well, as soon as we arrived I lost communication with the outside. In other words, my phone was out of range for our entire stay there, and at first I'm going to be honest, it bothered me, and it bothered me a lot, because I thought I wasn't even going to be able to have the phone to distract myself and not share with my mother-in-law. .. However, not having a mobile network helped me to think and to clear my mind of all the news and information that they send me by phone daily, the truth is that it felt quite good, disconnecting from the outside world and concentrating only on things That make you feel good, like the sun, the smell of the beach and the wind was refreshing.
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En cuanto a la familia de mi novio debo decir que mis ideas sobre como seria el fin de semana fueron exageradas, la verdad es que no se si era porque estábamos en la playa y en el mar la vida es mas sabrosa, o que realmente me había hecho una idea errónea de ellas y de lo que pensaban de mi, la verdad es que me trataron bastante bien, y no fue tan incomodo como me había imaginado, no creo que pueda sentirme 100% cómoda con ellas, pero al menos la convivencia fue agradable y se paso un rato agradable, fue lindo verlas cuidar a mi novio y consentirlo con la comida que le gusta, por mi parte, que siempre les he temido y huido fue agradable pasar un rato agradable para estrechar relaciones, no creo que sea necesario que llevemos una relación de amistad y camaradería, peor me alegra ver que por lo menos somos capaces de llevar una relación sana y cordial.
As for my boyfriend's family, I must say that my ideas about what the weekend would be like were exaggerated, the truth is that I don't know if it was because we were on the beach and in the sea life is more tasty, or that I really I had made a wrong idea about them and what they thought of me, the truth is that they treated me quite well, and it was not as uncomfortable as I had imagined, I do not think I can feel 100% comfortable with them, but at least the coexistence It was nice and they had a nice time, it was nice to see them take care of my boyfriend and pamper him with the food he likes, for my part, I have always feared them and fled it was nice to have a nice time to strengthen relationships, I don't think it's It is necessary that we have a relationship of friendship and camaraderie, worse I am happy to see that at least we are capable of having a healthy and cordial relationship.
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Por lo demás, bellos como siempre los lugares recónditos de mi país, esta vez fuimos hacia mamporal un pequeño pueblito que esta después de higuerote y antes de la laguna tacarigua, sus playas son realmente muy bonitas y me alegro ver que se encontraban bastantes cuidadas. Debido al mal tiempo que hizo los días que estuvimos allá no pudimos visitar la playa muy a menudo, únicamente el primer día que llegamos y por corto tiempo, pero ese corto tiempo fue realmente maravilloso el mar por si mismo posee una energía fantástica, apenas pisar la orilla de esta es como si se te recargaran las energía y su aroma y sonido puede tranquilizar a la mente mas perturbada. dure solo dos idas allí, pero fueron dos días de relajación y momento divertidos, creo que, aveces estamos tan inmersos en los problemas diarios (que toda persona tiene) que nos olvidamos de que aveces, es sano y necesario, PONER PAUSA, y pensar, ok este día me desconectare de todos y todo, de responsabilidades, pendientes, deudas y decir, sabes que? me merezco un descanso, porque poner pausa y respirar, también es vital para nuestra supervivencia en este mundo. Bueno hasta acá mi relato de este fin de semana espero que haya sido de su agrado quiero agradecerle como siempre a @naturalmedicine por brindarme su apoyo en esta plataforma desde mis inicios, quiero aconsejarles que si están pasando por uno momento duro viajen, viajar es mágico y sano para el alma, y no debe ser a un lugar ostentoso pueden ir a descubrir un pequeño pueblito como manporal, como dato curioso les quiero dejar también que el nombre de este singular pueblo proviene de una palabra indígena "mampora" con la que estos nombraban a la planta del banano que es muy abundante en toda esa zona, interesante¿cierto? bueno a continuación les dejo mis redes sociales para que si gustan también me sigan por allí.
For the rest, the remote places of my country are beautiful as always, this time we went to mamporal a small town that is after fig tree and before the tacarigua lagoon, its beaches are really very beautiful and I am glad to see that they were quite well cared for. Due to the bad weather that made the days we were there we could not visit the beach very often, only the first day we arrived and for a short time, but that short time was really wonderful the sea by itself has a fantastic energy, just step on The edge of it is as if your energy is recharged and its aroma and sound can calm the most disturbed mind. It lasted only two trips there, but it was two days of relaxation and fun time, I think that, sometimes we are so immersed in daily problems (that everyone has) that we forget that sometimes, it is healthy and necessary, PUT A PAUSE, and think , ok this day I will disconnect from everyone and everything, from responsibilities, pending, debts and say, you know what? I deserve a break, because pausing and breathing is also vital to our survival in this world. Well so far my story this weekend I hope you liked it, I want to thank @naturalmedicine as always for giving me their support on this platform since my beginnings, I want to advise you that if you are going through a hard time, travel, travel is magical and healthy for the soul, and it should not be to an ostentatious place they can go to discover a small town like manporal, as a curious fact I also want to let you know that the name of this unique town comes from an indigenous word "mampora" with which these They named the banana plant that is very abundant throughout that area, interesting, right? Well then I leave my social networks so that if you like them, follow me there.
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