-Martin Luther King.
Many moments in life are difficult, some uncomfortable, and others that we simply don't want to do, but there is no alternative.
In order to be able to do these things, which can be acts, to carry out a job, a conversation with someone or even to keep quiet about a situation, one must have a real and strong motivation, otherwise it would be twice as difficult to carry out such tasks.
And many times it is difficult to find that motivation, because those things to be done are so difficult and even ugly that we would like not to have to do them.
Where do I find the motivation that is needed, then?
Because I've done them, the difficult things, I've done too many of them.
I think the first thing to keep in mind is focus, to have an end goal, something that we want to achieve. Kind of like saying the end justifies the means.
Of course the means don't mean doing something bad to somebody, but the means are difficult or uncomfortable for ourselves.
In this case my motivation would arise from that end result, something I have to achieve or something I want to achieve, but for which I have to go through an unpleasant path.
Moving to another country was not easy at all, it was a challenge and very hard.
The road was difficult and uncomfortable? Yes, very much so. I had to face things I had never done before.
Many may think that moving from a third world country to a first world country is easy, but that is not real. Especially arriving without guidance, without advice, without help, alone and with only a map.
I wasn't used to doing a lot of things, certain formalities, for example, experiences I had never had before, like renting a flat from nothing, without a job, without a guarantor, without anything.
But the plan was one, there was only plan A. And my family would arrive in 6 months. I set myself the task of being the one to lead the way. And the motivation was to think of a better life, alternatives, future and my family.
Motivation should always be something so superior that it has the strength to help us do those difficult things. That when we remember it, it gives us the courage and strength of a thousand men to continue on the path, even if it is uncomfortable.
I had moments when I felt lost, I cried, I got stressed, I despaired... the road was not easy but the motivation was much stronger.
Of course I have had many other difficult moments in my life, but this one I highlight was the one that left the biggest mark on me, the one that made my life turn around and made me the best version of myself.
A woman of integrity, strong, determined and with conviction. A woman sure of who she is.
Personally, the motivation to do difficult or uncomfortable tasks or things is to look at the end result, the objective or goal that the stronger it is the more it drives and helps me to do those things.
It also motivates me to think about the changes for the better that the difficult thing to do can bring about.
Thoughts are as powerful as words or even more powerful than words. It depends on our thinking, the possible futures. Thinking about goals and the positive things that can be achieved, will always help as motivation for the difficult or uncomfortable things along the way.
I was very hesitant as to which topic to choose, all excellent. But I preferred to talk about one that has marked me a lot. Thank you @galenkp for always these writing suggestions and for motivating writing.
Best wishes to all and have a great weekend. See you next time.
Amonet.
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How are you dear friend @avdesing good morning
The focus you have is wonderful, and where you achieve the necessary motivation to do something difficult.
How great that you managed to move countries, and even though everything was very difficult, now you enjoy the results.
Thank you very much for sharing this experience
have a beautiful weekend
It's always a pleasure to share something that can help others, I love that. Thanks to you always for being there! 😃
When you move to another country you are leaving many things behind, and it is even more difficult when you have no guidance or orientation, everything from 0 and on your own.
For me it is not easy to migrate to a first world country, there are many differences and difficulties to face, but the motivation is in the end result, to achieve what you long for even if your hands bleed (oops, I passed haha) 😂
The motivation was very strong and if one day you decide... it's just a guess... you will not be alone!😃
As the son of emigrants, I understand everything you say. It is precisely the determination shown by my parents that is one of the reasons I admire them. I will tell you something you don't know, but it was my mother who was the first to leave Spain, a few months before my father, just to do what you did, to open the way.
A big hug @avdesign
I didn't know that, great woman. And she has achieved a lot. Sometimes it is necessary for the family. Best regards @enraizar ✨
She is not the only great woman. Have a great afternoon @avdesing
Thank you @enraizar !!!
Hasta mañana @avdesing , que tengas un gran evening!
See you tomorrow! Have a good rest!
Gracias; 🤗
Hello @avdesing how brave you are to go live so far from your country, you make me remember my uncle Ramiro, he also traveled far to live better, now he lives in Colombia
Your photos are beautiful
Sometimes you have to make decisions in life, to make it better. Thank you very much @miprimerconcurso 😃
My respects and admiration. 🤗
Life experiences... a lot learned, it was worth it. Thank you!🤗
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And it is always good to have someone there to support you, encourage you, and tell you that you are doing well, making a decision is never easy, especially if it is going to change your life. 🤗
That's right, it would have been ideal, but it was not to be. Thank you @ikigaidesign 😃
If knowing this other experience of yours in life I admired you even more, so we are determined to take care of the family.🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️
Family is the most important thing wherever they are!❤️