Selfishness and betrayal can and do break the heart. But I learnt from it to become stronger and to analyse why and what it happened to me.
You learn from everything in life, the important thing is to do it. The heart can be broken not only by a partner, a boyfriend, but also by friendships or what one believes to be friendships. In my case, both have happened to me.
First, I suffered great pain when what I thought were my high school friends betrayed me. They say that it is easy to be in the good times and that true friends are seen in the bad times, but I can tell you that in the good times you can also know who is a true friend.
I had been chosen in high school as a flag escort, on merit, the teachers chose me and so did the directors. And I was very happy about it. But it seems that my so-called friends weren't. They just said I didn't deserve it. They just said I didn't deserve it and they stayed away from me. I suffered so much, I cried so much, I can't explain it.
Eventually I realised that I had been used for a long time, to do work for them, I helped them, I was the studious one and I loved to help, but I couldn't see what was behind that supposed friendship. A lot of envy. Eventually I got over it and found true friendships. Those who are my equals, I learned to love myself, to respect myself and not to betray myself and those people came along, the ones who really loved me.
But also someone you fall in love with or think you fall in love with can break your heart, tear it apart, trample it underfoot. Maybe it's for the same reason as above, I didn't love myself enough, if I don't love myself I can't project that onto others. I think I learned that.
In this case it was a selfish person with a lot of ego and I was someone who was just learning about life. And by the time I realised how much he was hurting me, I was hurting too much, but I was able to walk away, learn and become stronger. I remember my best friend telling me: It's his loss. And today I think... what I saved myself from.
I didn't know it, because I didn't know myself yet, but that person was absolutely the opposite of me. And even though he broke my heart, it was the best thing that could have happened to me, it was a great lesson. Being at the other person's beck and call every minute didn't make them see me more or take more notice of me. But you learn from everything.
I also cried a lot, rivers of tears, but after a long time I got over it and then I continued my apprenticeship. By learning, you find the right person, the one whose soul you can see in the eyes and whose soul is compatible and beautiful.
The heart can be broken, but it can also be rebuilt and with more strength. Thank you always @galenkp for these great weekend themes.
And thank you all for reading me today. I send you a big hello, and wish you a great weekend. Enjoy yourselves.
Amonet.
Used translator Deepl.com free version.
Excellent.
Thank you!!💗
Very good text. It seems that in order to grow you have to suffer. You have done it, you have learned and your happiness makes me happy.
Happy weekend @avdesing.
I don't know if it is always necessary to suffer, but it seems that my soul chose that path before coming and here we are, that's what we came for... now I learn in a different way, less bad ....
Thanks to you, good Saturday!
Procuro mirar lo positivo de la vida, y creo que sin los malos momentos no seríamos capaces de dar el valor que merecen los buenos. Dentro de ese camino de aprendizaje hay hay experiencias que nadie debería pasar.
Y seguimos aprendiendo...
Today I also look at the positive. And I learn differently, but it's all for a reason. Thank you!✨
I'm sure it's a good reason, a hug @avdesing.
Hug!!!✨👋
Hasta mañana, y cuidado que pronto llegan los reyes... 👋
Even my teachers used me haha I didn't want to help my classmates, because I knew that they only wanted to use me and besides they treated me badly and bullied me, but my teachers forced me, that's why nowadays I still find it hard to say no, but I guess burning the world will solve the issue... 🦉 khe?
People can be very cruel, the good thing is that you realised it... I didn't and the blow was hard, we both had to learn, it's for a reason. Thank you my pair!💗
Good morning dear friend @avdesing
I am very sorry for all these unpleasant situations that you had to live through, but as you say, we learn and rebuild from all the things that happen to us in life
I appreciate that you have shared this learning experience
Things are there for a reason in life, today I learn in a different way, without pain. Thank you very much😃
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Thank you so much @hive-up and @yaziris 😃
My heart keeps breaking but I keep putting band-aids on it. 😥
It's good that you learned your lessons. I hope I've learned something by now because I don't want to keep repeating the same stories. I want it to stop now!
You must find the reason for past choices and patterns or programming and there you will heal... it's wonderful! I think I will recommend a very good channel soon.✨
Dear @avdesing they say that blows teach us but we never learn and every now and then they break our hearts. But we have the ability to rebuild it and it becomes harder and stronger. Now I choose friendships more. Nice reflection.
A hug. Happy weekend.🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️
Exactly, and now I am learning but in a different way. Thank you very much beautiful, have a nice day!😃
Hello @avdesing, good morning
I'm sorry about everything that happened to you. I'm very sorry. The positive side of it is learning.
Have a beautiful Sunday
Things always happen in life, the important thing is to move forward. Thank you very much!💗
You broke the circle...that's what it's all about.
For some the road is thornier, but in the end people like you are better prepared to face life and all its conflicts....
Today I look back and those who were particularly popular at that stage of school life are half empty beings and have nothing to do with my personality....
Somehow I believe in this saying : God gives his worst battles to his best warriors....feel that way friend.
I really liked that sentence and I think it's true! We are good warriors!
Truly any heart that is broken, will be stronger when once it survives the first pains
Is true! Thank you so much!😃