A new prompt was made again by sir Galen at the weekend experience and there are different topics to choose from, I saw an interesting one that relates to my situation right now and that topic is.
Taken for granted
Have you ever realized you've been taking something or someone for granted and if so why did you do it, how did you come to understand you were doing it and what did you do to rectify it? Do a post of at least 300 words and use photos you took yourself.
This topic suits my situation right now, I know a lot of you especially my co-read users knew how glamorous I am when it comes to helping my friends and treating them before. Yes, guys, I didn't hesitate to help before cause I earned income from playing and blogging. I have friends which are in a difficult situation.
Oh by the way, the term taken for granted doesn't involve any kind of relationships in my experience, it's just about my friends which I feel I was taken for granted. So here's the story, I have a friend which on a very difficult situation, his brother got ill and her mother got ill also, since I'm his friend and I have extra money, he frequently asked for help from me. Since I feel pity for his situation, I tried my best to help him.
Can't upload other photos cause his face is seen there but I always treat him foods cause he said they had nothing to eat on their house.
I think overall I already give a huge sum of money and food to them, I didn't mind anything before as long as I help him to ease their situation. I am the type of guy who's not looking for any debt of gratitude, a simple appreciation is already okay for me. But they are in good shape right now and they manage to survive while I'm striving to survive on my thesis due to the huge sum of money needed to contribute.
Oh it's his money that he flexed on me
Much possible, I don't like to ask for help but tough times push me, I asked for help from my friends but it made me sad, I saw him having new things and he manage to roam everywhere but when I asked him for help financially and promise to pay it back, he said he had nothing to lend. I feel sad about it and I don't want to confront him. It's just sad that I feel like I was taken for granted.
It gave me a great lesson right now to choose those people that need my help, as much as possible the stars need to kneel before I help. It gives me a huge realization that not all people you helped before will help you once you are in a difficult situation. I am hoping that you don't experience what I got.
Now, I am still in a difficult situation but I still try my best to earn to pay for my contribution, in the end, I realize that my only self will be the one who can help and not other people.
The moment he takes you for granted is the moment he also ends his friendship with you. I mean, after all the help you lend, he still chooses not to help you? How ungrateful.
Well, the positive thing that you realized from the situation was that you are capable of lending a hand to someone in need. You're a generous person. And I didn't say that you have to refrain from doing it but know how to discern a person whom you can trust and someone whom you can turn to if you need help.
Sorry to hear about your experience. Now your friend's true colors show and it's sad. The good thing is that you helped him when he was struggling and hope that comes into his mind one day soon before losing you.
It's sad to read about your experience. You know the saying a friend in need is a friend indeed. So what kind of friend is he? Is it really your friend? You should ask yourself this question and decide if he deserves your trust.
Also, please make sure you quote everything that is not yours an mention the source. I see you copied Galen's prompt and did not quote it. Please edit your post and do it right. Thank you.
Oh I was also aiming to quote it but I don't know what's the command for it, thanks for stopping by on my article, I also questioned myself is he's a true friend of mine.
You put this sign in front of the text >
Then at the end of the text you type [source])(here you drop the link of the source)
got it madam thank youuu.
You're welcome. Then please edit the post and do it right.
Done already madam, thanks again for help.
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Aigoooo, that kind of people doesn't deserve any help from you. You already help him enough so give him a lesson if ever manghiram ulit sayo, don't just bigay ng bigay, ipunin mo para may mahugit ka kapag nangailangan ka.
kaya nga eh, next time luluhod muna ang mga tala bago ako magbigay hahaha proof muna sabay statements HAHAH.
Hahaha, ganyan dapat. Huwag porkey nagpaawa effect ee bibigay ka agad. Wag ganon. Higpitan mo kapit mo sa pitaka mo para di makawala ang laman.