That's it, they have a place and we can be grateful for what they taught us but to let them drag us down endlessly seems futile as little can be done after the fact. If you need to make amends, then do so but not just to try rid yourself of regret, that's counterintuitive.
Thanks for your lovely comment @trucklife-family I hope we both can move forward more efficiently and continue to reach higher in the future 🌼