Those who have not lived through it personally don't understand, and won't, despite thinking they do. It's the same with other things in life; there's no experience like first have experience.
You seem to be doing ok now, although there were certainly times in which you have not been ok at all, and still may be...that's how it's supposed to be I guess. What's important is that you hold on to the memories and experiences you shared to counter-balance it all out. But you know all that.
All the best for the week.
Exactly! I find that in the face of ignorance over tragedy silence is the greatest comfort
A wonderful week to you to