If it was a situation that made me feel bad I'd not do it; I pick my moments to decline and my moments to go. But, if doing something, going out, wasn't going to make me feel good then why go in the first place? So, if it's something that I don't think I will enjoy I will not go.
My life, my choices.
Well, this just opened my eyes, I am a bit of a people pleaser so I always worry about hurting feelings and all but this just made me realize a lot.
It's important to be true to yourself, after all, it's yourself that you're accountable to.
Thank you so much for these words of wisdom, I'll keep them close.