All the weekend themes are amazing, I think they are all a great option to celebrate 250 successful weeks of a community that keeps growing, and that is why I have decided to write about myself and the things I have done to grow as a person, something that also deserves to be celebrated, because wow it took me to have the tranquility I enjoy today, and although there are chaotic days or events around me, this New Me knows how to handle them and come out of it with great elegance, and although I learned when I fell the lowest, the inner peace I have today I came to think I would never reach it.
I had to process several betrayals to realize something that we are told from the time we are very young, and that is to put ourselves first. I look back and I can say that I was a prisoner of myself, putting everyone's interests above my own, and although at the time I felt good doing it, it turned out to be something that after my 30s brought me more problems than benefits. The worst thing is that sometimes I feel selfish, because my nature has always been to serve, but I learned to say no very politely, and I stand by it firmly. Yes, there are people who have walked away, but it's the best thing that could have happened to me, before I felt used and abandoned again.
Music always brings peace of mind, but practicing music as a profession could easily be a double-edged sword. You can't do it alone, you need others to harmonize, and you have to learn to deal with those others. Something that has helped me to grow has been not to depend only on music for healing and reflection, now I have included contact with nature in my days, and I escape from the big buildings of the capital to breathe fresh air somewhere in the big mountain. I have always had this place nearby and ignored it for years. Walking or hiking helps me exercise, think and heal a lot of harmful thoughts, they have really helped me transform my days and my personality, and it is an activity I recommend to everyone reading me today. Connect with nature, breathe it, listen to it and feel it, and you will see that it will help you improve as a person. We are part of it, but somewhere along the way we have forgotten it...
And all this brings me to a last point, but not less important than the others, and that is to Learn Something New. Possibly it was the mourning that had me stagnant for some time, but I have always been interested in learning a new activity, that keeps us active and in constant personal growth. In music I never stop learning, right now I have a teacher that keeps me very happy, and in fact I am exploring my own anatomy for singing technique, but my adventures as a hiker are teaching me more about another of my passions, which is geography and although I am not perfect yet, I am taking some photography courses in my free time and putting them into practice, especially with nature. These photos are a small example that I'm putting my whole heart into it, and that's something I love about my New Me.
My Bro, something great that is reflected in each photo in addition to this new stage learning about photography, is that if we go further, the focus is essential to better appreciate our objective and thus be better breaking down what surrounds it to better understand what we visualize.
Your new self has come out of the darkness to shine in the light, no matter how many betrayals you lived, you were never resentful and that is worth more than feeling resentment towards those people; I know you suffered wondering why they were like that with you, but all that introspective process was necessary to better understand the genesis of frustration and to better understand the give and take duo, because this deserves a balance and you know it very well already.
Nature will always be our best ally of mental and spiritual healing, there is no doubt about it, so follow this path of peace, it is the best thing that can happen to us, remember that nothing is chance in life 🙏❤️... I love you very much brother ❤️... You Fuc&%$ Rockkk!!! 👍😎🔥📸🌱🌳🍃❤️
Mi hermano, algo grandioso que se refleja en cada foto, además de esta nueva etapa de aprendizaje fotográfico, es que si profundizamos, el enfoque es esencial para apreciar mejor nuestro objetivo y, por lo tanto, analizar mejor lo que lo rodea para comprender mejor lo que visualizamos.
Tu nuevo yo ha salido de la oscuridad para brillar en la luz. Sin importar cuántas traiciones hayas vivido, nunca guardaste rencor, y eso vale más que sentir resentimiento hacia esas personas. Sé que sufriste preguntándote por qué eran así contigo, pero todo ese proceso introspectivo fue necesario para comprender mejor el origen de la frustración y la relación entre dar y recibir, porque esto merece un equilibrio y tú ya lo sabes muy bien.
La naturaleza siempre será nuestra mejor aliada de sanación mental y espiritual, de eso no hay duda, así que sigue este camino de paz, es lo mejor que nos puede pasar, recuerda que nada es casualidad en la vida 🙏❤️... Te quiero mucho hermano ❤️... You Fuc&%$ Rockkk!!! 👍😎🔥📸🌱🌳🍃❤️
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I know you have left me a great comment here, and you have touched my heart again, but I will be brief and just say THANK YOU, and a I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, because that's how I feel and because there are no words. I hope to see you soon brother, I am sure that in our reunion I will see you even happier...
Every step you have taken has brought you to a new level and made you the person you are now, an excellent person!!!! Keep moving forward!
Beautiful words you say to me. I love you very much Avesita, I am happy that you are in my life, just at this moment. Although distance separates us, you are the kind of person I want close to me... I hug you! 🙏
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Good friend, we agree that hiking is the best way to release stress and enjoy nature. Greetings, friend.
Hey brother! Nice to greet you. Yes, and for me it's becoming a passion, in fact sometimes I do it alone, in a couple or in a group, it's always a different emotion and a different route. Thanks a lot 🙏
I enjoy every text you write. It's evident that music suport your world and your personal growind it's also a fact. I can ser it on The pretty good images you take. Thankyou for everything my friend.
In that you are right brother, part of my happiness comes from music, and in that music I feel God, who was the one who gave me music. I am grateful to you, and sorry for my late reply...
Putting your interests as first priority is not being selfish, sometimes you gotta look for your own peace in order to bring peace to other people later, nice post, keep it up!
However, it is not easy to understand this after so many years of service to others. It is a long and painful learning process, but the bitter part is over. Thank you very much my friend...