There are many centuries of idealization of the size issue. It is difficult to forget about it. From an early age we are exalted, and we hear favorable comments when the measurements fall within the set standards.
I agree about the relative nature of the issue. Everyone has their own perception.
That's true...peoole have their perception...even if we tried harder we cannot bring any mich difference to what we have in what we got as being in natural state.