Our (Western) culture has always been full of taboos about sex, which is why it is often cumbersome for a young person to begin to get informed or to document himself. He always has at his disposal information from his friends who are often worse off than he is; or he resorts to pornography and gets completely distorted or wrong ideas about sex.
I thought about it several times when selecting this topic for my work (teaching) but then I said to myself: -Why should I choose other topics if I like this one so much? and I love reading about sex and health. Looking at it from another perspective, sex will always be a basic need, like food; it is not something you choose, you must satisfy it or rather satisfy it. That is why many religions have failed and will continue to fail because they want to go against human nature, to prohibit sex is to fight against the waves of a rough sea, unless you have extreme vocation and there is no doubt that there are cases of people who were born for this.
Particularly I consider myself a good lover; you will say who does not consider himself a good lover? But this does not come only from reading thousands of books and putting into practice all the techniques that are in them. Being a good lover is also in practice and everything flows if there is a strong attraction for the other person.
In this 50-50 there must be a balance; desire is fundamental. When we desire a person we become creative and want to fill them with pleasure.
Men are quite complex because they have few erogenous zones; what is hot for one is not even warm for the other, but there is nothing more exciting than messages that fan the flame, expressing how much you want, what you want and how you want it. I am very visual and love storytelling, as you describe something my mind is quickly creating it and it has worked for me with my partner. After these very intimate messages you have conquered much of the ground so it will be noticeable how successful they will be in their eyes and around their skin.
There are many people who don't like this kind of thing at all, it's completely valid and they prefer more meaningful and palpable games so it's perfect to start with the back.
A man's back is exquisite, so kissing it, is pleasure for me rather but the detail of this is to do it from the bottom up. If you have few complexes like me, I recommend doing it from the lower back a little below the waist where the buttocks begin. These are highly erogenous. It is ideal that you check it carefully observing his skin, if it bristles because men for pity, very little express their pleasure with moans and rather make other sounds and gestures that will confirm that this type of games are ideal for him and you are on the right track.
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Translated from Spanish to English by DeppL (free version)
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Fascinating content from you that makes me think that you are a girl who knows how to satisfy herself and her partner.
There are few women who dare to go over what men like, at least in my case. That's why I always express it, I really enjoy being kissed on the inside of my thighs and having my feet caressed, but without a doubt some intense kisses on the mouth, that drives me crazy.
The back, as you say, has not activated me as much as the thighs.
The other thing is the right words, because a word out of context can end the event disastrously; it has done it to me, a word that shouldn't have come and the friend got off.
It is a game of balance, as you rightly mention, where both give and are given by the pleasure of sex; it is a divine thing that tells you that you are alive.
I agree with you, the thighs are an area that well stimulated you get great results but I wanted to place in the publication something that was away from the genital area to discard a bit of the idea that men are stimulated or want to be stimulated only there. Notice, you get turned on by your feet and surely it's a part that you also seek to excite in your partner, it's great. The neck also makes them go crazyHi @germanandradeg thank you very much for your comment 😊. Sounds like I'm infallible hehehe.