I'm so glad that you've started whittling Tom's list down.
I'm sure you're still swinging between 'I'm going to be ok' to utter despair.
Tackling jobs like this does help, but also makes me sad, as I can just see how Arthur would have been drawing out a plan first to get the 'geometrics' correct, and the satisfaction he got when the job's done.
Baby steps for sure, I need to remember that!
Take care of yourself Fiona xxx
I completely get you on the mixed feelings. And yes, it has to be baby steps. Sometimes when you look back, they're also giant leaps forward. Sterkte vriendin xx