You're supposed to be a parent because you like children. But is it an unwritten rule? Whose rule and why? My mom was a preschool teacher and some afternoons I had to accompany her to work and those were the worst days. I couldn't stand being with so many children at the same time. I thought, I'll never have children, I'll never be a teacher, or a pediatrician or anything to do with children.
I grew up with that and more because I was the younger sister, that is, I was the spoiled one and no one else. Then my first nephew came along, and they multiplied, every year one was born and it was impossible not to be involved. Obviously I liked them, but not all of them. And now I thought, well, I think I'll have a son.
When I got married we had obviously already planned to have two children, I think my husband is a born babysitter, but I was still apprehensive. But when you become a mother those thoughts disappear (at first) and everything seems so nice that you think it's easy. Reality hits you and you say REALLY THIS IS A LOT OF WORK. But you're already in the boat and you have to keep rowing.
As my daughters grow older I realize that I really do love them, just because they are my daughters. I mean, I don't like all children, not all my nephews, not all my daughters' friends, not all my friends' children. I think we have good days, but deep down, deep down, I don't like being around them. They can be very funny, sweet, loving, and they can make you feel things you've never felt before. But to be comfortable with any child you have to have a gift and I don't have it.
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My kids are enough, and I probably wouldn't ever change my career. I may not be their favorite adult, or anyone's, either, but I am a different kind of mom, and no, I don't like all kids.
So am I a bad mother? It may just depend on what day of my menstrual cycle I'm on.
"We read but we don't judge." It sounds really bad but it isn't. I don't like many adults either and we can all coexist in this wonderful world of Disney, where everything is possible.![]
I'm not a mother, but I think I would feel exactly like you. I used to be terrified of children, some even attacked me in front of their parents and I had to deal with the situation with a smile on my lips...it was difficult...those things marked me... Over the years it seems that I matured and learned to deal with them, in short they are children but some have a reckless nature...😅 Don't feel guilty about anything, it is normal for everyone to deal with them according to how our heart and feelings are formed.
Hahaha, really? I can imagine: boy, behave! What's wrong with you? Hahaha, that's what I would say. At home they already know how I am and they say "don't even think about leaving the boy with Mairim" laughing, but that hasn't made the situation any easier for me.
What a way to laugh ... hahaha ... then some people should walk with a prospectus of precautions in case they decide to meet us, and among them do not forget to put: Better keep your children away if they are very hyperactive, person of high child sensitivity...😅😂....
Nice Sunday to you.
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My husband says that when there are unruly children, my face says: this mom bites, she is intolerant of other people's children. Hahaha, but hey, it's something I have to improve. New Year's resolution 2025 hahaha.
Happy weekend.
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And he must be right...😂😂😂
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